Highly successful and happy people never visit fortune tellers, because it’s not their pair of shoes. They’re the ones who know what they want and how to turn their dreams into reality. Weak personalities who’re afraid of life usually go to tarot card readers or fortune tellers. They believe that it’s the best way to secure their future. I think it’s better to ask wise and experienced people for a valuable advice. I’m sure they know how to break the deadlock and be on the right side of the hedge.
Many fortune tellers have the ability to feel people’s energy and emotions. Furthermore, they often try to take control of the conversation and exploit weak minds.
3. The less you know, the better you sleep
My last visit to a fortune teller was a critical mistake that cost me many sleepless nights. I couldn’t take control of my imagination and get negative predictions out of my mind. That life experience taught me to be wiser next time and made me aware of all possible consequences. Now I think it’s better to know only my side of the story and never share my life problems with strangers.
Psychologists say that fortune telling can seriously damage your mental well-being. Fortune tellers’ hypnotic skills can make you believe even in absurd things. Their predictions usually fill people’s mind with fear and anxiety, because it’s very difficult to overcome inner controversy. As a result, you become mentally exhausted and depressed about everything.
It may seem weighty and appear to make them weary, but softhearted people are not overwhelmed by the task of carrying lots of responsibility. They appreciate the burden and the treasure that was given to them to carry. No matter how the world sees it, they find this task easier than everyone will think. Philanthropy is never a burden to them.
4. We want to offer light to end the darkness
Many live behind fake masks and are not genuine. Expectations are not met and emotions are blown. However with softhearted people you find truth and loyality. A softhearted person will never blame a single person for the world’s many problems. Such wonderful people offer genuine insight to where we should go next and they help everyone through hard times.
5. We are rare
It would be better if softhearted people were in abundance. To have only a few softhearted people seems to be a problem on the surface. But on the other hand this offers every softhearted person out there an opportunity to showcase their wonderful gifts of love, compassion and kindness.
6. We want to free the world of pain
Pain and agony is what we see everywhere, on different media. And it can be exhausting. We start to wish that it wasn’t there. But instead of only wishing for better time, you can find a softhearted person trying to make your world seemingly distant from the pain. Their positive spirit overshadows the despair and offers light, belief and hope.
Okay, not really. But two new studies do suggest that feeling alone can hasten death. One study followed found that people over 45 years old who lived alone and were prone to heart problems were almost 25 percent more likely to die from them than people who lived with a spouse, a relative, or three other sex-obsessed older ladies. Researchers think that people living alone are less likely to take their medication and eat healthily — not to mention have someone there to dial 911 when their hearts seize up like an oilless engine.
The second study focused on people 60 and older, and linked feelings of loneliness or isolation with a higher risk of early death. About 45 percent of men and 59 percent of women were more likely to die if they reported feeling left out. These feelings of isolation, moreover, had little to do with whether the participants lived with someone else — a neglectful spouse proved just as deadly as an otherwise empty apartment.
But never fear! We know several ways to avoid crushing feelings of loneliness, even if everyone you’ve ever known has ultimately deemed you undeserving of love. Such as:
? Head to a neighborhood watering hole and look for someone sitting alone at the bar. Then make fun of the person in your head for being such a pathetic loser while you get obliterated.
? Buy a mannequin, but leave some of the limbs off of it. That way, you’ll immediately have something to talk about: ”How’d you lose that limb, Manny?” … ”Gosh, that sounds awful!”
? Wander into a dog park and strike up conversations with strangers about how you’ve always wanted a dog, but could never have one because of your horrible allergies. Blow your nose a lot. Then let the strangers’ sympathy wash over you like a warm bubble bath.
If you don’t want to challenge anxious thoughts about your future, you should try to enjoy the present moment. Promise yourself not to go to fortune tellers for the sake of your mental health.
4. You’re the only master of your fate
Frankly speaking, I don’t believe in fate and prophecies any more. I think that life is a set of both big and small choices. Every day and every minute you create and change your life. According to the probability theory, every human being has equal chances to improve or destroy their life. You can either get rich and achieve desirable results or go broke and lose everything. No one and nothing can divine your future, because it doesn’t exist. Talented fortune tellers can only foresee all possible paths of your development.
There’s no need to complicate your life by visiting fortune tellers. You should once and for all take the responsibility for your future. All you have to do is find your calling and move on in right direction, because you’re the smith of your happiness.
The softhearted person’s enthusiasm to perform when others are naive and retreat can be animating and exceptional. It is confusing to appreciate this because people have become so familiar with injustice and deserving less. People have been so used to being abused they don’t think they should be pitied. Instead they think that they deserve whatever they get. In such times of demotivation the softhearted continue to lead while others retreat.
8. We don’t take the world too seriously
If we all took the world of pain and worries too seriously, we will lack humor and a sense of progress. Softhearted people make better choices in the society all while keeping a good humor. They make the world better, friendlier and nicer. We all need to smile through the pain sometimes and softhearted people will help you accomplish that.